Are you looking for your next lesbian lover? Or maybe you just want to build your circle of lesbian friends.
It can be a real pain searching and searching, and going from site to site to find a really good lesbian dating site. I have went through this process myself, so I figured why not publish what I found to save others some time.
My criteria for rating a lesbian dating website has many parts. Does it have free lesbian dating signup? Does it have great lesbian online dating services, like search for members by zip rather than state prior to signing up? Does it have great options like lesbian chatrooms, lesbian blogs, and advanced member search options? How many members does it have? What is the atmosphere of the community there? It can have all the great services in one site, but if the folks there are a bunch of drama queens and cranky butts, I am not interested LOL.
Below you will find what I feel are the best lesbian dating sites that I have played at, and believe me I have checked out a bunch! And I have listed the reasons why, because they are varied in what they offer, but each one was picked for a something special about it.
So check them out, sign up for free accounts and give them a test before you drop your hard earned cash.
But before I loose you off to the dating sites to check them out, I want to remind you to explore my site a bit. This site is not just about giving a few dating sites that I think are the best lesbian dating sites, but it’s built to give you daily new articles on lesbian dating advice and lesbian dating tips, and not just about things like how to write a good profile or how to be safe meeting folks for the first time in the real world, but also things like how to get rid of the old baggage, how to handle building a new relationship, and for folks who have children, how to help them cope the transition. I have some automated tools that help me search the internet for good articles and information, then I spend time each day reading through them to see what would be good to add to my site. So some days it may only be one article and other days I get lucky and find several.
I have also spent a good amount of time going through amazon and overstock and a few other places trying to find the really good books and videos about lesbian dating, relationships, and some just good ol fun things to read or watch. It’s pretty amazing how many books and videos we have now. I remember when…. oh wait, that may give away how old I am haha 
Anyway, check back often to see what cool new things I have found and feel free to share your comments, thoughts and feeling with folks here. BTW, I am working on getting some cool new tools on the site for email subscriptions and tweeter, facebook, and other forms to keep you updated when I find some really noteworthy things to pass on. So look for that in the next few weeks. Right now you can subscribe using the RSS feed button at the top of the page, but it just doesn’t have all the options I want YET!
Oh, don’t forget to check out my article on ONLINE LESBIAN DATING BASICS, which goes a little deeper into why I chose the sites I did for my recommended BEST LESBIAN DATING SITES, as well as, how to get started on your online dating journey.
MY BEST LESBIAN DATING SITE REVIEWS
Click on each one to of the title links to go to that particular lesbian dating site after you have read through the info for them all. Pick a few that sound interesting and sign up for a free account and check it out before spending your money.
#1 – SistaSearch.com
I can’t say enough about this site. It’s my favorite lesbian dating web site. It has several matching methods, more than any other lesbian dating website that I have found. Even some really good methods like the big boys who I won’t name because they don’t let our kind in (hands on hips)! SistaSearch.com has been around awhile but has changed the base company that they get their worldwide members from. So it’s been interesting to see the transition.
Besides pretty unique matching methods for a gay or lesbian dating site, they have some of the most current state of the art tools such as, anonymous phone to phone, video chat, lesbian chat, free email, voice direct, and video communications. And the thing they have that most do not have, is zipcode search. I won’t go into what each one of those tools is because I could write several pages on it, but you can just go to the site and check it out for yourself, they have a really great description of the tools there
Sign up for free and check out all of the different tools and I am positive you will agree that it deserves the #1 spot for the BEST LESBIAN DATING SITE. Click here to visit SistaSearch.com.
#2 – LesbianChatter.com
If you like to play online, this is the place for you. Besides the basic lesbian dating services, they have lesbian chat, lesbian forums, and lesbian blogs. Yep, that’s right, you can create your own blog within a lesbian only community. There are very few gay or lesbian dating sites that have forums and blogs associated with it!
Sign up for free and check out all of the different tools and I am positive you will agree that it deserves to be in the top 5 BEST LESBIAN DATING SITES. Click here to visit LesbianChatter.com
#3 – The-L-Room.com
I really like this site. They don’t have all the bells and whistles that some of the other sites do, but it is really great site. I was around when they were actually a different domain name but run by the same lady and I still see folks from my area that have been signed up there for years. Not to keep finding girlfriends silly, but because they seem to have a lot of folks looking to expand their friend base. At least in my area they do.
Also, they allow you to search by state even before you sign up for the free account.. A lot of places only let you search by age until you at least sign up for a free account. But here, you can at least check out how many ladies in your state before you even cough up an email address for a free account. Not they would ever do anything bad with your email because they use TangoWire which is a HUGE data network that has been around for awhile and very reputable. And that’s something you have to watch out for with some of the little sites that aren’t affiliated with a large established network that has proven that it’s trust worthy. And don’t worry, just because it’s a large data network, the way the site is setup, it’s only ladies who have signed up specifically for a lesbian site that will have access.
Anyway, I have met some really great ladies here and think that you will probably enjoy it too!
Click here to sign up for a FREE account at The-L-Room.com
#4 – GAY.com
This site is a gay and lesbian dating site, but it has a large community of lesbians. It is another one of the few i have found that you can search by zipcode before you sign up as a free member.
Don’t be put off by the landing page I am sending you to because it is all pics of gay men. But it is the page that has the special offer to save you some money, should you decide to do a paid membership. So after you get to that page, then save off the link or bookmark it. Then click on the gay.com logo at the top of the page to get to the search option. Use the search option to check out women in your area. You’ll then see just how large the selection of lesbian daters is for your area before you even sign up for a free account.
Click here to check out Gay.com or click on one of the images below.
Make sure you check back often, as I continue to update the site daily with new articles, tips, advice, books and videos about lesbian dating and relationships.
Well, I hope your visit here has been fun and informative, and hopefully you will agree that the sites I picked really are the BEST LESBIAN DATING SITES!
Thanks for stopping by – tell your friends – and success in adding more friends and maybe even a new girlfriend/lover/partner to your life. Have fun ladies – life is to short to procrastinate or spend all of your time working!